Anal Masturbation for Beginners

It’s time to break the taboo that is anal masturbation. Some may think that masturbation is limited to just your reproductive parts, but the truth is, playing with your derriere can be just as exciting as any other form of masturbation.

The prostate (or male g-spot as it is sometimes referred to) is located in the anus. Making it the perfect place to please yourself. However, anal masturbation isn’t just for those with a prostate (or p-spot) anyone can enjoy a little bum fun.

Anal masturbation can do wonders for helping you prepare for anal penetration. If you’re wanting to give anal sex a go with a trusted participant, but are a little afraid of going too big too soon, then try giving some solo butt play a go to allow you to become more familiar with the sensation.

How to prepare for anal masturbation

For those who are new to butt play inserting anything too girthy may be a daunting thought. How does something that big fit in that small hole? Luckily the anus stretches, so anal masturbation can be perfectly comfortable and enjoyable as long as you're in the mood for it. If you find it hard to relax when performing anal then it may be that you need to follow a few simple steps to relax yourself and make everything slide around much easier.

Get aroused

Just like any form of wanking, you want to be aroused before you start your masturbation. Feeling ready for some self-love will not only make things feel more pleasurable but will also make everything slide more freely without discomfort.

So first, find a way of arousing yourself, then it's time to get stuck into the real fun.

Lube up!

Going in dry can be a mistake when it comes to anal play. This could end in discomfort, especially for those who haven't partaken in anal play before and of course, feeling discomfort isn’t quite what we’re after when masturbating - you want to be in pleasure heaven! The best way to make sure everything sliding along smoothly is to introduce a lubricant into play time.

There are some great lubes on the market specifically targeted to make anal penetration easier. The Maximus Anal Lubricant Water-based lube is great for even longer lasting moisture or alternatively you can try giving the BUTTR Fisting Butter Thick Jelly a go to keep everything gliding comfortably. This pot is also a whopping 500ml which means you can keep dipping in and reapplying to your hearts content.

Slow and steady wins the race to orgasmic heaven

Take your time and enjoy the experience. Think of anal masturbation as a marathon instead of a sprint, listen to your body and what you like rather than just going straight in with rapid motions.

A top tip is to begin with just a finger to get used to the sensation before upping the ante and popping in more fingers or introducing in sex toys.

Grab a helping hand

As previously mentioned, if you’re a beginner in the anal department then you want to start of small and slow to ease you into the experience.

Anal plugs are excellent beginner toys as they slowly welcome you to the sensation of anal. Here at Ricky, we offer a heap of beginner butt plug sets. If your looking for something immensely pleasurable the Beginner Rechargeable Butt Plus Vibrator Set gives you that filled-butt-feeling while going that extra vibrating mile. Butt plugs are also perfect for popping in while you stimulate yourself in other areas too as they stay in hands free.

Similarly to butt plugs anal beads are inserted into the rectum but instead of sitting in their still they are great to pull in and out. The bumps and grooves of the beaded design are created for that extra pleasure experience. Our best-selling Anal Beginner Silicone Butt Plug Set is the perfect play mate for those wanting to test out anal beads. With three different designs to choose from your can test out the shape of bead that you find most pleasurable.

If you’re looking for something to ride, anal dildos with suction cups are great because they leave you with your hands free to stimulate other parts of your body to really up the enjoyment. But any anal dildo can do a marvellous job of satisfying your needs. The hardest part is deciding what length, girth, material you want and whether you’re looking for vibrations or not.

Simply, have a browse at all the anal toys on offer and see what takes your fancy. You may find it takes a little bit of experimentation to really find what really gets you going.

Techniques to try

There is no strict rule when it comes to anal masturbation. Go with the flow and test out different techniques to find out what helps you get off. You can lie on your back and bring your knees to your chest for easy, comfortable access or even try getting on all fours in the doggy position.

Test out the perfect position that makes you feel the most pleasured. Masturbation should feel good, so go ahead and get to know yourself. Whether you like slow and sensual or hard and rapid the key thing to remember is to do what feels best for your body.